I think that the worst part of it all wasn't losing him. It was losing me.

I think, I think when it's all over,
It just comes back in flashes, you know?
It's like a kaleidoscope of memories.
It just all comes back. But he never does.
I think part of me knew the second I saw him that this would happen.
It's not really anything he said, or anything he did,
It was, the feeling that came along with it.
And, the crazy thing is I don't know if I'm ever gonna feel that way again.
But I don't know if I should.
I knew his world moved too fast, and burned too bright.
But I just thought, how can the devil be pulling you toward someone who looks so much like an angel when he smiles at you?
Maybe he knew that when he saw me.
I guess I just lost my balance.
I think that the worst part of it all wasn't losing him.
It was losing me.

By: Taylor Swift

You know, now a day I can say I'm a very grateful kid. I have passed through a lot, being constantly hurt by people that call their selves "cool" or some other stupid word that doesn't define what they truly are. Even though i've been betrayed by some, I believe in better days, I'm now stronger. You know what most of people say: "its not about what they've done to you, its about what you do about it". Well, this is for all that have been hurt.  This is not a new story to tell, this are words for you, wherever you are and whoever you are. To open your eyes and see that everything that come to us have a different purpose,  to make us stronger and bigger as a person or to make us happier. Not all the people who come to our life are the ones we expected. Please, we are all different, not everybody wants to see you sad or even happy. We got to accept the fact that some time in our life we are going to met somebody that is going to hurt every single part of us, and I think that's normal cause then we have two choices to make, letting them hurt us or letting us take that chance to see things in a different way. To make a change in us, to make us a better human. Maybe that's why that type of things come to us sometimes, we got to make that choice. In my case, I didn't make it. I let them hurt me and hurt every single part of my heart. It wasn't easy to glue those little parts together, I make it on my own and it take time. You know the phrase "time always heals" but sometimes it also destroys. And finally I've learn that we are strong enough to change circumstances, defend our self first. Learning how to cover us in order not to get hurt. 

Also, learning to appreciate our self and to stay strong. People come and go, but you always stay wherever you want to be. One person can change your life from better to best or from bad to worst, its your  decision how you want it to be.  From now on, I've learned from a lot of situations and it really change my way. A friend told me: "Don't let little things worry you, there is always trash in the road". I've given a lot of my time to people who doesn't deserve it at all but for me, it wasn't a waste of time, it was a time for me to see that definitely I didn't want to be part of that people, i wont be like them ever. Even though they did the wrong thing to the right girl, Im here still waiting for the people that will really worth. You may not be able to control ever situation and its outcome, but you can control you attitude and how to deal with it. Welcome, this is life. Think about it, if you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably wont lead you anywhere. So, always keep your head up and I swear to you that its going to be difficult for people to get you down..